A few days ago, I wrote twice about something we don’t talk about enough:— Children and adults abused at family level, “handled” quietly at family level.— Survivors abused at church, “handled” quietly at church level. Since then, my inbox has not stopped. Message after…
That sentence pierced me in a way I wasn’t ready for.It was during a workplace review.I had made a mistake — a human one — and I owned it. But then came the blow: “We see a lot of thought leadership online, but what…
We often talk about childhood bullying — the teasing, the exclusion, the intimidation.But what many don’t talk about enough is how that bullying doesn’t always end at the school gate. It just puts on a tie, walks into boardrooms, and hides behind fancy job…
I’m writing a book. A book for the boy child.It’s not just for him — it’s for the parent raising him too. The caregiver. The mother. The father. The mentor. The auntie who sees the gaps. The teacher who cares. It’s for every adult…
One of the most grounding lessons I carry is from a woman who is truly after my own heart — my mother. Growing up, greetings in our household were not just routine. They were intentional. You didn’t just say, “Mamukasei.” She would pause, look…
Let’s talk about rounds. You’ve probably been in one. Or you’re in one right now. Community saving rounds — mukando, stokvels, rotating saving schemes — they’ve helped us build, dream, and do things we never thought we could. They’re beautiful when they work. Because…
