Nicole's Corner
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Fifteen minutes changed the way I think about life.

A few months ago, I was driving when a car behind me started flashing its lights. The driver clearly wanted me to speed up or give way. As I usually do, I made space and let the car pass. As it overtook me, the…

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Can I confess something openly?

Can I confess something openly? I was once removed from a group. Blocked. Just like that. A friend had invited me into a women’s group. It was active, engaging, full of prayer points and discussions around relationships and marriage. One day, there was a…

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There are people in this life who are elbows.

There are people in this life who are elbows. They don’t build with you. They push you out. Quietly. Strategically. Intentionally. They withhold information. They keep “tips” to themselves. They close doors they know you could walk through. Not because they can’t help, but…

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Be careful. Because the internet will shape you…..

There is an influencer—well known, followed, respected—who built a strong voice online speaking against unions, against marriage, against having children. She was bold about it. And many listened. Many followed her thinking. Many reshaped their lives around what she said. Some even left their…

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There are people who lost family….

There are people who lost family. Lost friends. Lost entire support systems. Not because those people harmed them. Not because of proven wrongdoing. But because someone with a microphone said, “That person is a wizard.” And just like that — relationships were cut off….

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Let’s talk

Let me take you back a few years. I was a student in a foreign land. Far from home. Far from familiarity. Looking for one simple thing — a place to worship. Like many of us in the diaspora, I was navigating life alone….

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